Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating BehaviorPractical, proven self help steps show how to transform 40 common self-defeating behaviors, including procrastination, envy, obsession, anger, self-pity, compulsion, neediness, guilt, rebellion, inaction, and more. |
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I viewed it as a chance to be in a less pressured environment and sort out what I wanted to do. I got much more than Ibargained for. After several weeks in the psychiatric wards, talking and listening to numerous patients, I thought for ...
I viewed it as a chance to be in a less pressured environment and sort out what I wanted to do. I got much more than Ibargained for. After several weeks in the psychiatric wards, talking and listening to numerous patients, I thought for ...
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He thought the answer was simple: become a psychiatrist. “But that would be the easy way out,” I protested. His reply changed my life: “Sometimes the easy way out is the right way in.” The experience not only influenced my choice of ...
He thought the answer was simple: become a psychiatrist. “But that would be the easy way out,” I protested. His reply changed my life: “Sometimes the easy way out is the right way in.” The experience not only influenced my choice of ...
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The more anxious and alone or inadequate and incompetent they feel, the more tenaciously they hold to whatever thoughts, attitudes and behaviors bring relief. If they do not develop more effective coping mechanisms, the ones that bring ...
The more anxious and alone or inadequate and incompetent they feel, the more tenaciously they hold to whatever thoughts, attitudes and behaviors bring relief. If they do not develop more effective coping mechanisms, the ones that bring ...
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Second, you might need a refresher course from time to time; self-defeating behaviors have a way of cropping up long after you thought you'd seen the last of them. Positive changes in behavior have to be practiced repeatedly before they ...
Second, you might need a refresher course from time to time; self-defeating behaviors have a way of cropping up long after you thought you'd seen the last of them. Positive changes in behavior have to be practiced repeatedly before they ...
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Índice
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Procrastinating | 11 |
Waiting Until Its Too Late | 21 |
in Return | 37 |
Playing It Safe | 41 |
Always Having to Be Right | 45 |
Focusing on What Your Partner Is Doing Wrong | 49 |
Putting up With Broken Promises | 54 |
Trying to Take Care of Everybody | 100 |
Refusing to Play Games | 104 |
Putting on an Act to Make a Good Impression | 108 |
Being Envious of Others | 113 |
Feeling Sorry for Yourself | 117 |
Assuming the Hard Way Is the Right Way | 122 |
Thinking Im Sorry Is Enough | 126 |
Holding It All In | 130 |
Trying to Make up While Youre Still Angry | 59 |
Not Learning From Your Mistakes | 63 |
Trying to Change Others | 67 |
Rebelling Just for the Sake of Rebelling | 71 |
Talking When Nobodys Listening | 75 |
Pretending Youre Fine When Youre Not | 79 |
Becoming Obsessive or Compulsive | 83 |
Taking Things Too Personally | 88 |
Acting Too Needy | 92 |
Having Unrealistic Expectations | 96 |
Quitting Too Soon | 135 |
Letting Others Control Your Life | 139 |
Leaving Too Much to Chance | 143 |
Letting Fear Run Your Life | 148 |
Not Moving on After a Loss | 152 |
Not Getting Out When the Getting Is Good | 156 |
Not Asking for What You Need | 161 |
Giving Advice When They Want Something Else | 166 |
Backing Down Because You Dont Feel Ready | 171 |
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Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg Pré-visualização limitada - 1996 |
Get Out of Your Own Way: Overcoming Self-Defeating Behavior Mark Goulston,Philip Goldberg Pré-visualização limitada - 1996 |
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